Friday, 30 November 2012
Miss Lillie Lovely from Edenfantasys and I are starting a website called 'Tales from the Trade'
It will be a place for working girls and guys from at least all over North America, if not the entire globe, to come together, network and share their stories for support, laughter, safety and education. We are talking cam girls/guys to strippers to porn stars to escorts to street girls and any other corners of the sex trade. Together with agencies that help working girls/guys across the continent we can provide what our society does not. We will have a 1-800 number, run by volunteers who have been or are members of the sex trade, sort of like a crisis line for when we need to talk to someone who gets where we're coming from or for emergencies. Even more exciting is joining with a UK based company who has produced a safety app called "Stay Safe". This app is downloadable for your android or iPhone and is perfect for the needs of anyone involved in any risky work of a sexual nature. Really it has many uses, but we are thinking that it is perfect for outcalls. You set a timer when you arrive at your destination. When the timer goes off you must enter a code. If you don't enter a code or you enter your duress code the service will send a message to your pre-set contacts containing any info you may have entered into your phone at the beginning of your appointment plus your exact location by GPS. This way it is up to your friends, family etc whether to attempt to assist you themselves, or to contact authorities. It's an amazing technology and will eventually be able to turn the camera on the phone on to gather evidence. Of course we nor the company who has produced the app are liable for any damages as we are going to be there to help make things safer for STWs, not as something to absolutely rely on. That said, I think that this is going to help make our profession much safer especially for STWs such as Americans outside of Nevada that currently run the risk of getting arrested from reporting a rape when prostitution is involved. YAY!!!
Please anyone who wants to get involved at any level please contact me or LillieLovely on Eden.
Saturday, 3 November 2012
- Part 2 of my first blow job: I got paid to watch my client give his first real blow job ( I got paid by BOTH guys!) I couldn't help but question why!!! I swear watching him savour the taste was awesomer than doing it myself. I am def a voyeur if those I am watching are luvin every minute of it and wanting to share it. Otherwise I can't handle watching private acts. I have to be invited and I LOVED this invitation.
- Next: my usual hour and a half oral apt lasted 20 min and I still got paid in full. Plus he obviously had his best orgasm with me yet. Funny what happens once I know a client well enough to do my job right! Seriously it feels so good to know that your clients feel they really are getting their money's worth.
- Then: I have a new working partner lets call her 'K'.'K' was supposed to join me and a new regular for a hot double pegging. He ate something that didn't agree with him at breakfast . Damn.
- Unfortunately: I have been spoiled lately with all of my p-spot clients- they have all been immaculate. This one was not and I swore he got off on it! It was like he has a cocky dominant personality in real life , asks to be submissive but really isn't. He made a mess of my bed.
BUT THEN: my client that had to cancel the threesome made up for any and all stress of the last week: He's surprising me with.................
Tuesday, 23 October 2012
First on the agenda?
Cuban heels stockings by Coquette
FFE Vibrating 4.5" dildo
FF Ocean (plus video)
Njoy Fun joy
Jimmyjane Form 6
Jopen vr2,3 &5
Tristan Taorminos Ultimate Kink
A Coquette demi cup bustier
Bamboo mens pajama bottoms
Pink Spunk Lube
Ocean Sensuals G Gel
Aslan Jaguar cuffs and ankle restraints
and many more...........
Plus I want to include a "Quest for the perfect clitoral stimulation gel" section
Give you more "tales from the trade"
and I will write up a sex toy materials section and try to keep a database of lube/bath and beauty products ingredients.
Watch Out for my BELATED GRAND OPENING EVOLVED NOVELTIES GIVEAWAY!!! you could win a Speeding Bullet or Roulette toy!
Thanx for sticking with me guys I'm learning the tech part as fast as I can and I appreciate your support.
Saturday, 20 October 2012
Thursday, 18 October 2012
I had an appt. with a new client this week, involving a light bdsm kit, and gender play. When I arrived he was in a tight see thru strappy tank top, and see thru boyshorts. He quickly put on the collar I brought and we talked about his fantasies. The only request he had about what not to do was be verbally abusive- which I don't enjoy anyway so I happily agreed to it. After introducing him to the 2 bags of toys (mostly insertable vibes) that I brought and getting dressed up in a black satin and lace waist cincher by Shirley G, Leg avenue stockings and the sportsheets vibrating corset harness (review coming soon) we started to play. I got to play as a mildly dominant dom but my favourite part was when he got down on his knees and began to perform oral sex on the Tantus goddess dildo that I was wearing. I have always dreamed of wearing a strap-on, bending a sexy chick over and slapping her ass as I penetrated her- and I'm sure I will eventually accomplish this fantasy, but this was an experience I didn't realize I would love so much. Sexis has an article about this exact act by Mr. Sexsmith here. I didn't ask him to do it and I was already going back and forth between enjoying an idea of what it must feel like to wield a cock and at the same time feeling like a bumbling idiot who couldn't do a simple task right, when I looked down and saw him put the goddess in his mouth. I admit it- It was totally HOT!!! Granted, I couldn't actually feel his lips around it but I could see it and I felt a mix of my feminine power as well as a masculine. My new thing is feeling safe enough to get off with my clients so the evening ended in mutual masturbation- come on, who doesn't want to get paid to jack off? Makes me feel like this is too good be true- I'm an agnostic, but I swear I wonder if in my last life I was a catholic? Cause I've actually been feeling guilty about accepting money when I'm cumming too! Next time he wants to add a third person to the mix but i'm not sure what gender I prefer- I'll keep you informed!
Sunday, 23 September 2012
So I recently decided that I’m sick of being a broke assed schizo-affective bitch and I want the personal empowerment and awesome wages of the sex trade again. This time has been much different as I rightly assumed it would. Biggest difference? Boundaries. My moms favourite word. Years ago when I was a doped up mess I hooked to survive. Other than my rent (when I had a place to live) I funded EVERYTHING with sex trade money. Although I must admit that my addiction to cocaine swallowed pretty much every penny that I had. Back then there wasn’t much that I wouldn’t do, sexually speaking, to get my coke fix. Needless to say it was pathetic, extremely painful (physically yes but much more emotionally) humiliating and degrading. I into equality and there was none on the street. I won’t embarrass myself further by saying how low I went for how small an amount of cash but tears were common, both before during and after. I was not able to fake enjoying it. I was, however, able to hide just how bad I felt. By the end I was totally ‘no frills’ though. If asked if I “love to suck cock” , I’d reply with absolutely no emotion in my voice as flat as could be “oh ya it’s great, I can’t get enough”. I managed to hide my sarcasm but that’s about it. I spent most of my life prior to my 5 years in hell (as I call them) looking people straight in the eyes, thankfully I am able to do so today as well, but from 2004-2006 if I did that they usually saw the pain in my eyes (or tears) and would ask me to get out of the car. Begging for a john to keep you is not a pretty sight.
Anyway back to why I love what I’m doing now, even after all those hellish dates: I get to choose what I do and what I don’t do without fear of losing needed $. I get treated with respect and dignity (unless he pays me well enough, but non coerced consent makes all of the difference). It’s not in public. It’s much safer. I get paid way flippin better ( and I mean like at least 500% better). And arguably best of all I often get to cum! This is honestly a truly healing part of my journey.
In the last year and a half I took on 3 of my old regulars ( 3 of the very few who always treated me right) and answered an ad which brought be a great new client. He’s attractive, in shape, fun and pays great. Last week I took out my first ad followed by another one a few days ago. It’s going great. I had my first dom appt which I will write another post about, I saw a client it turned out that I had met before, got stood up twice (chalk it up to experience- don’t ever book with someone who won’t give you a phone number to reach him) by the same person, saw a really gross dude twice who paid me almost twice what the rest do each time, and saw 2 sexy guys my age that both made me cum 3 times!!! I also have a few more bookings on the agenda. My goal is to get a few people that I see once a week, a few more twice a month and a few more once a month. Nothing compared to all night every night. This way I’m sure I will have a few gross or uncomfortable experiences but I will also get to choose who I see again and for how long.
I advertise myself as an early 30 something (even done the 29 thing) long dark wavy haired sexy brunette plus tattoos and piercings with strong capable hands for erotic massage and of course TOYS TOYS TOYS!!!. when I arrive I usually give a free 15 minute crash course on sex toys which I love to do anyway. From the response I’m getting, which I know will taper off as I slip from new chick to regular poster, I think I need to buy more P-spot toys and basic BDSM. I am honestly looking forward to it!
I will keep you informed of my joys and my fails.
Thursday, 26 July 2012
Trading/buying/selling used toys can be a safe, inexpensive alternative to shelling out exorbitant amounts of cash.
Monday, 23 July 2012
I'm also looking for a job which isn't easy considering my history and my mental health but on the other hand I am a really fantastic loyal employee and if I mange to get that across in an interview I usually get the job. keep your fingers crossed! As you may know my dad passed away 5 1/2 weeks ago and me and the rest of my family are doing better with it then expected. There's a chance I might move up there if I can get a job at the sex shop near the island my family lives on. I move out of the house I'm in now on September first. It will be the first time that I've truly been single and on my own for 11 years it's complicated)
Anyway I wanted to write this to anounce and keep track of my first big accomplishment online- I got a short PAID article published on SEXIS which is edenfantsys online magazine. It's simple but it's mine and I am really proud. When it comes out I'll provide a link. Until then, I'm on the search for a job, an apartment, some new clients and one or two people (preferably one male and one female) tp play with my toys with. Lately I'm interested ion gender play.....but that's another story
Monday, 9 July 2012
WIN A $100 EDENFANTASYS GIFT CARD from Sex Toy Society !!!!
This is a great sex toy review blog for men women and couples originating in the U.K. it's thorough and a great place to get some good info! check it out
Tuesday, 3 July 2012
Sunday, 17 June 2012
Wednesday, 13 June 2012
teagan has been giving away TONS of stuff this month. this won is a long list of several products sure to please and tease.
she also suggests heading on over to dallas novelties http://www.dallasnovelty.com and of course checking out her blog http://blog.teaganshepard.com
Thursday, 17 May 2012
I do enjoy porn but I'm going to leave that (other than some awesome still pics) off of this page.
I'll post reviews of toys that edenfantasys doesn't carry and links to my reviews- both written and video, from eden.
I am single at the moment- searching for a woman to learn strap-on play with and the only entities I am a mother to are 2 female cats. I do several things for a living. I am on call at a few businesses, one of which is a sex shop. I am a part time caregiver for a friend with cerebral palsy. I also do erotic massage which is far preferable from the level of stw work I used to do. I am clean and fairly happy considering the stress in my life at the moment. I am losing my closest family member. My dad is in the last months of his life, cancer has ravaged his body and we don't have much time left. Either I'll use the internet to take my mind off his death or I might disappear for awhile. anyway thats where I'm at. That and leaving for an old lovers (female) wedding across the country tomorrow.
Sunday, 29 April 2012
heres a link to a Trojan giveaway package- to tell you the truth trojan vibes have never done it for me but these may be different- definitely worth it if its free!
guess what? I WON THIS PRIZE!!!
Saturday, 28 April 2012
Anyway my plans for this blog- mostly the usual- links, giveaways, sex toy reviews both written and video, hopefully some attempts at writing my own erotica a well as collecting some from the web and sharing with you. Eden fantasys will remain my main 'web-home' probably for a year or so until I can get the hang of things and move on to being an affiliate site- testing toys good and bad and hopefully directing you to the best places to buy the winners!
So who do i think you'll be? a mish mash of fellow toy connoisseurs, horny chicks and dicks or chicks with dicks (real OR strap-on), writers, girls with anatomies or preferences similar to mine, friends of course and hopefully mentors of all things healthy happy horny!
First I need to learn the technical basics (of blogging not masturbating lol) but I think we are going to have a long rewardinng relationship. Sorry that I have to catch up but the school of hard knocks gave me a PHD- all the way to a very rocky rock bottom and crawling out and piecing my brain and body back together took awhile. Now I'm 35 and as I've said before at my sexual peak, which for a girl thats been horny since age 3 and not afraid to show and tell EVERYONE about it, has FINALLY arrived!
off for a nap......I'll try to keep my hands above my waist...happy frigging (and stroking boys)
Monday, 9 April 2012
Aside from how strong my libido is (women peak at 35 after all) and what I plan to do with my life surrounding the sex industry, I should tell you about the biggest issue (other than staying clean and having regular orgasms) that affects my life. Take your pic- either I have schizo-affective disorder or I am claire sentient. Basically 24/7 hell 60/60/12/24/7/52 I hear voices, see images- both in my mind and in the air around or near my body, smell and taste things with no local origin, feel emotions unrelated to my activities (hard to tell apart from repressed emotions from the past) and even get touched by entities that are not held in any one physical place. Some of them are complete assholes. others are just as confused as me and really I can't be sure which come from my imagination, the past, other places on earth, the fourth dimension, parallel universes, other life forms etc etc. How does this differ from generic schizophrenia? well they teach me stuff I didn't previously know like the names for parts of my brain that are affected by their presence and the drugs I used to be addicted to plus they have predicted two earthquakes within a few hours to 2 days before hand. Geez I could go on and on but unless you already have a belief in the paranormal or super-natural or psychics in general you won't be interested and you'll probably come up with a million explanations as to their source.
Where I'm at right now:
I LOVE EDEN FANTASYS!!!! my new goal in life (other than finding a partner to create and raise a child with) is to one day open a retail sex shop that also has a feminist escort agency that caters to me and women, gay,straight,bi or transgendered. My favourite part of the business will be that it will offer sex ed at every level. How to talk to your kids about sex, kissing classes, felatio / cunnilingus classes, even tantra classes plus pole dancing and burlesque- all sorts of how to love your body and give it the pleasure it deserves in a completely healthy empowering way. It's not a crazy goal. I really believe that its achievable- these kinds of places are out there just usually in cities of 2 million or more.
EDEN FANTASYS is going to get me on my way. Now everyone has heard of what a great job testing sex toys for a living would be and they offer the stepping stone to that reality. They have hundreds of thousands of items for sale and competitive prices for anyone who is too shy to go into their local sex shop or simply wants something very specific. Considering how different every woman or mans body is there really is a toy for everyone. Now when i say toys I think of my first love- vibrators, but eden doesn't just carry vibrators- they carry couples toys, mens toys, lingerie, lubes, bdsm gear. bath and body products etce etce etc in everything from leather to lace to wood to silicone to silk to plastic to TPR.
AND.......they don't stop there. Just for surfing the site and becoming part of their community they give you points which are equal to cents for almost every action you make.